Ignatius Day – Fordham Now https://now.fordham.edu The official news site for Fordham University. Fri, 26 Apr 2024 15:35:41 +0000 en-US hourly 1 https://now.fordham.edu/wp-content/uploads/2015/01/favicon.png Ignatius Day – Fordham Now https://now.fordham.edu 32 32 232360065 The Feast of St. Ignatius and the Lessons of Discernment—Or How to Make a Difficult Decision https://now.fordham.edu/living-the-mission/the-feast-of-st-ignatius-and-the-lessons-of-discernment-or-how-to-make-a-difficult-decision/ Mon, 31 Jul 2023 01:52:52 +0000 https://news.fordham.sitecare.pro/?p=174990 Dear Fordham Community,

Today is the Feast of St. Ignatius, when we celebrate our founder, the intellectual and moral genius who left us an extraordinary legacy. But rather than brag about Ignatius himself, we serve his legacy better by remembering his teachings.

Every day at Fordham, we struggle with difficult decisions – the agonizing kinds that leave us so exhausted with decision fatigue we can’t possibly decide what to eat for dinner that night. Most of us, without really knowing it, reach for aspects of the Jesuit principles of discernment, the practice that Pope Francis deems the most important contribution of his Jesuit order.

I can only scratch the surface of discernment here, but I’ll tell you what strikes me most. First and foremost, to make a good decision, you must stop and give it the time it deserves. (By that, I don’t mean forming a committee to talk endlessly about the simplest of choices, but to recognize when a decision really matters and avoid rushing to judgment.)

Second, we also must really dig into the problem itself. Fr. Joseph Tetlow, S.J. (now permanently known around here as Uncle Joe) always tells me, “the solution to the crisis can be found inside the crisis.” It doesn’t work to apply the general principle – the outside answer – to complicated problems. We examine the specifics of our situation and learn from the problem itself, in all its thorny complexity.

In other words, before we can find the answers, we need to seek out more information and insight. To listen, really listen, requires that we:

  • stop talking so that we can listen (a struggle for me sometimes);
  • seek out information from more than just our usual echo chambers – to bravely reach out to the truth-tellers who will be blunt and honest with us;
  • be self-aware – learn the filters and biases that keep us from learning what we hear;
  • remain open, try not to let our defenses get triggered and shut down;
  • and finally – to seek out different kinds of facts and arguments than we’re used to. If you are an analytical person, listen to the impact on people. If you’re an empath, consider the data and hard facts.

How do we avoid having all of that input create an endless committee meeting inside your own head? How, then, do you decide? Much of Jesuit discernment comes down to this – once you’ve listened hard, gathered insights, and spent time prayerfully considering the options, trust your gut. Try on each possible option in your mind and measure how it feels. Ignatius believed, in a way that was very counterculture centuries ago, that there is real value in the instincts of our hearts. The Jesuits use the word “consolation.” The right thing to do also feels right. It consoles us.

As a community, we make hard decisions for Fordham every day. I hope we can always do it with patience, courage, and wisdom.

Prayers and blessings,

Tania Tetlow
President

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Ignatius Day Message from President Tetlow https://now.fordham.edu/university-news/ignatius-day-message-from-president-tetlow/ Sun, 31 Jul 2022 12:30:55 +0000 https://news.fordham.sitecare.pro/?p=162360 Dear Fordham,

In his podcast, Malcolm Gladwell described being surprised at the writings of St. Ignatius of Loyola. Expecting only limited insights from 500-year-old work, instead, to his delight, he found Ignatius “breathtakingly relevant.”

There are many saints who inspire us to have the courage to do the right thing, those who lived dramatic lives or died bravely as martyrs. Ignatius devoted his life to God in a different way. He translated the messages of the Gospel to the messy uncertainty of life, providing a roadmap for discernment. He found God while building universities, in thousands of bureaucratic decisions where the moral answer was far from clear.

And he did so in ways that remain remarkably sophisticated and relevant. Centuries before Freud and modern psychology, Ignatius focused on the critical need for self-knowledge, and change rooted in self-forgiveness.

His principles of discernment we might now label “design thinking.” He taught us how to be innovative and nimble, because we hold onto what matters, fiercely, and let go of our attachment to the rest.

His teachings about how to run the enormous and far-flung Jesuit “company” could be reprinted today in any business school journal–only because management theory eventually came around to the idea of leadership grounded in purpose and empathy.

Fordham, today we celebrate Ignatius Day with special urgency as the University makes the transition to lay leadership. We are part of an extraordinary heritage, full of centuries of accumulated wisdom and purpose. It is up to us to keep it. It is our fuel. It is what makes us special.

Prayers and blessings,

Tania Tetlow
President

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